Which One are You

Do you have a desk job or are you more a physical hands-on type of person who needs to be exhausted at the end of every workday. Physically exhausted not mentally exhausted. I’ve known both kinds. Which do I prefer? Well, that’s a secret I’ll never tell. There are perks to both kinds. The man who sits at a desk all day has lily white soft hands that have never seen a hard day of work. His mind works for him. His body does not. A man who works with his hands knows a hard day of work. His hands are chapped, callused and rough. If he is a handyman, he can do anything. From taking apart a motor or building a house. He’s a good catch for you ladies, open your eyes.

Boring 

On the other hand, a man who has a desk job is book smart and most likely makes a great living doing what he does. So, if you are looking for someone who can give you all the comforts in life. Perhaps you should head in that direction. Although personality matters, along with charm and a good sense of humor. What matters the most is decency. Is this guy a decent person, or is he a douche trying to cover up his Sidious side? He could give you a mansion with everything you’ve ever wanted, live in the lap of luxury. But if you aren’t happy with him, what's the point? 

On the other hand, the handyman could build you the house of your dreams. That is always an option. Let’s all keep an open mind about this shall we. All I know is I love men who love dogs. Hence the above photo. I couldn't live with someone who was cruel to dogs.

Two Different Men

There is a stark difference between the two types of men I’m talking about. One may be a little rough around the edges but otherwise sweeter than hell. The one who sits at a desk may be sweet up front but really hiding a disgusting perversion we know nothing about. Or he could be the dream man you’ve been waiting for. 

The guy who sits all day would have to be someone who likes to exercise, I think. Otherwise, how would he maintain himself? A runner maybe, or someone who works out in a gym. I know if I sat at desk all day, I’d be doing some type of exercise after I got home.

The guy with the physical job doesn’t have to worry about this. He’s exercising all day long. He most likely will be drained when he comes home from work and want nothing more than food and a good recliner. 

I believe either type of guy would be a suitable partner. It all depends on what you find alluring.

Hands On Man

Do you want someone who doesn’t know how to change the oil in your vehicle? Or someone who knows how to do exactly that. Or do you want someone who will challenge your mind rather than stimulate your body. Or maybe he would do both.

Is the perfect guy out there? 

Go look, maybe you’ll find him. I found mine.

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