An Ordinary Man

He’s a creep, he’s a stalker

He’s a stealer of hearts

He’ll tempt you when you’re most vulnerable

He’ll woo you with his words

He steals your inner thoughts and dreams

Each day spent with him is flawless and complete

He's really too good to be true, he’s a knight in shining armor

Someone should have told me be careful what you wish for

He is the other half of me, together we make two

To obtain and maintain perfection, is a double sided mirror

He’s so sincere, he’s so devoted

His words send shivers up and down my spine

Our sweet days spent together

In hindsight, were just his fairy tale

What happens next sends signals

Something isn’t true

What changed from one day to the next

You know it wasn’t you

His words are now cruel, his fingerprints bruise your skin 

Your sunny perfect world in a second turns icy blue

He always strikes when no one’s there 

His soft voice turns to stone

You didn’t see it coming, didn’t have a clue

If you had, you would have ran 

His mark slipped off so suddenly 

The face of evil took its place

His soul is rotted, there’s no remorse 

His swift kicks bruise your soul

His face looms above you, yet once again soft and kind

 His apologies are heartfelt and sincere

He has to mean it, my heart badly wants to believe 

Two days later his fist finds my face, the world implodes as I fall

There is no more trying, there’s only escape

My tears flow freely, my dreams are no more

Battered and broken I lay on the floor

He stands above me, his laughter is cruel

He softly whispers, do you love me now

No one will catch me, no one can save you

How do I know this

Darling because I’ve done this before

love shouldn't hurt-printed on back of woman

Domestic violence happens more and more often. Women who experience this are embarrassed and ashamed. They do not file a police report. Oftentimes they want to believe so badly that this person will change-and love them completely with no other motive. What they don’t realize, what they don’t know, is that the one who says they love them is broken inside. His mind isn’t clear, he’s full of a rage that needs to be released. That’s where you come into play. You are his human punching bag. He learns how to strike so the outside world doesn’t see. No facial bruises, no broken bones. The only thing broken is your heart and your soul. There is no changing him, he's a revolving door. Sweet one minute, the next he kicks you and hurts you with words that do not ring true. There are thousands of women right now living this nightmare. Don’t become a statistic. Become a survivor.

The only way out is escape. Sadly, this doesn’t happen in many cases. The woman ends up dying, alone and too afraid to reach out for any kind of help.

Don’t let this happen to you. There are signs someone isn’t who they say they are. Pay close attention, after all your life may depend on it. 

If you recognize the signs……..run.

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